Teen Voices – One Young Person

WEAVE offers internships to high school students willing to commit to an ongoing project.  Here is the story of one student’s experience at WEAVE.

I am a student as The Met High School in Sacramento. This year, I am interning at WEAVE. As a part of my internship, our school requires that we to do a project that will benefit the site we intern at. I decided to have two parts to my project, a fundraiser and an awareness event.

The fundraiser was to raise money for backpacks for The Anti-Trafficking Program at WEAVE. The backpacks are given to survivors of commercial sexual exploitation who are in need of  basic belongings such as clothes, hand towels and washrags, hygiene and personal care items, bus passes, gift cards in small amounts to grocery stores, Target or Wal-Mart.  I have  completed the fundraiser and had a successful fun bake sale to raise the money for the backpacks.

The bake sale came together with the help of a group of students in my advisory who volunteered to bake and help prep for the bake sale. It was a blast to bake with them and they were all happy to contribute to a good cause.

We set up a table in the cafeteria at lunch and set out the cupcakes, cookies and lemon bread. The students began to notice the table as they gathered for lunch in the cafeteria and in a short time the table was over whelming with kids, all wanting something much tastier to eat then the lunch that day at the school.

 All together I raised $202 dollars through purchases and donations! It was a great experience for me and it made me realize that even a teenager like myself, can really make a difference and help.

The second part of my project is to give a presentation to my advisory at my high school to educate them on Human Trafficking. I am doing the presentation this month. I’ll let you know how it goes!

Thanks for reading!

Emily

 

A Message from Emily’s WEAVE Mentor:

Emily is a great example of how one person can change many lives. Many survivors of human trafficking lose all of their belongings when they escape. They face the terrible choice of returning to their trafficker or going without. The care packages Emily puts together will meet the basic needs of young sex trafficking survivors here in Sacramento. This provides an  invaluable sense of security that empowers youth to move into the healing process.

If you would like to bring together your community, school, church, or work place to assemble care packages for young people, WEAVE would like to support you in making a difference.  Just let us know how we can help! Ideally, each care package would include all of the items listed below:

  • Sweats/lounge-wear (small sizes)
  • Underclothing (socks, bra’s, underwear)
  • Backpacks
  • Journals/pens
  • Stationary and stamps
  • Hand towels and washrags
  • Hygiene and personal care items (tampons, deodorant, hair brushes, etc)
  • Bus passes
  • Gift cards in small denominations (Grocery stores, Target, WalMart)

 

Items can be dropped off at our counseling center at 1900 K Street, Attention Mandy Taylor.  If you have any questions about WEAVE’s Anti-Trafficking Program or how you can make a difference in the loves of survivors, please contact me.

Thank you,

Mandy Taylor, MSW

(916) 319-4910

mandyt@weaveinc.org

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Teen Voices

WEAVE’s Teen Education & Prevention program works directly with  you at Hiram Johnson High School.  Here, our Teen Educator Renae, works with the students of Club STRONG and mentors students to help create a safer environment and healthier campus.  Renae’s work with students at Hiram Johnson High School allows her to form much deeper relationships and to empower the youth to be change agents themselves.  The program is clearly working:

Hey Renae,

I want to tell you thank you so much for taking your time to be my mentor this year. I don’t think I have told you this enough but I appreciated it so much. I enjoyed working for you and WEAVE. You guys have a great organization and I hope I can be apart of events again. You are a great person and your going to go far in your career. Thank you for being so understanding. You understood my schedule but still made sure I had my hours. Thank you for checking up on me when we see eachother and ask how I was doing. Thank you for letting me talk to you about my guy problems haha. Thank you for pressuring me into going to prom cause I enjoyed myself. I learned a lot during this project with domestic violence and I thank you for my knowledge I have now. I’m glad I had such an awesome mentor that was chill and hip :) haha I know I was late to meetings and couldnt show up for some events but hey you never gave up on me and I appreciate that as well. Just remember for your next mentees they wont be as cool as us :) Well Renae, once again thank you and I appreciate it so much.

 

 

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Proof that big help does come in small packages

WEAVE’s programs and services are made possible through the help of more than 200 volunteers each year.   These volunteers include college students who complete internships for a variety of programs including Marriage and Family Therapy, Social Work, Human Services, Human Development, Communications and more.  The following reflections were shared from a current intern during her first week interning at WEAVE.

I am always amazed at the generosity of children.  Too often when we speak of children it is of their personal needs and sometimes even of how selfish they can seem; “Mommy, I want that brand new toy on television!”

On Wednesday, I was given a glimpse at the selflessness side of children.  Four young girls, all in fourth grade at Helen Carr Castillo Elementary School in Elk Grove, came to WEAVE to  drop off a donation.  This was only my second day as an intern at WEAVE, so I was still very much getting my feet wet when I was asked to tag along at this donation drop off.  What I saw was truly heartwarming.

These four girls held a garage sale and raised over six hundred dollars to benefit WEAVE.  However, rather than just making a cash donation they took a large portion of the money and  purchased fleece material, ribbon and teddy bears.  With the materials they made packages of brand new no-sew blankets and teddy bears gingerly tied together with ribbon that will be placed on the WEAVE Safe House  beds.  Children that come into the Safe House are there to get away from a violent home environment and are often  feeling lost or confused.  Many will  now have a brand new blanket and teddy bear that is all theirs sitting on their bed waiting for them.  This will be such a huge help to these children, aiding in their adjustment to an  otherwise scary  time!

Children are compassionate and giving; often times they just need to be listened to and given the help and encouragement needed in seeing their ideas come to fruition!  These four little girls have made a huge impact on the lives of children they will never meet; you can’t get more  selfless than that.

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Sexual Assault Victim Being Held in Juvenile Hall

A young sexual assault victim is being held in juvenile hall to ensure her appearance at the rapist’s hearing. WEAVE has heard from many dismayed and outraged members of our community and we share your concerns about the rights of the victim in this situation and fears that it will discourage other victims from coming forward in the future.

Rest assured that WEAVE has shared these concerns with the District Attorney’s Office and is in communication about the matter.

Our mission and purpose has always been and continues to be serving as a voice for needs of the victim. As our community’s rape crisis center, we will continue to advocate for decisions which prioritize a victim’s safety, confidentiality and well-being; ensure access to advocacy and support without fear; and hold violent perpetrators accountable.

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Children’s Building Renovations Completed!

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It’s Time to Play

Today, we completed renovations to our Children’s Building on the Safehouse campus.  The building was originally the vision of the late B.T. Collins who raised the funds to build the structure through his birthday party.  He dreamed of a safe place where kids could just be kids.  After two decades of heavy “wear and tear” the space needed a serious facelift.  The Association of Commercial Real Estate provided the seed money to initiate the project with proceeds from the Broker of the Year Award (BOYA) in 2010.  Many other generous donors joined the project over the past two years including HomeAid who helped secure additional funding and volunteer labor for the project. 

Today, the original vision of B.T. is reborn with the same goal  – to let kids be kids.  The space has been repurposed to meet the changing needs of children who have experienced domestic violence.  Tomorrow, these children (175 a year) will enter the building as they go to school as space houses an onsite charter school.  It is essentially a “one room schoolhouse” where a K-12 credentialed bilingual teacher works with the children to keep them on pace with their peers.  Children learn in a safe and supportive environment without the fear of the abuser waiting for them after school.  Children can receive therapeutic counseling and learn age-appropriate safety planning.  The kitchen is a place where kids prepare snacks while learning about healthy eating.  The library offers a quiet space with shelves of books for every reading level.  The play area supports the most important part of the space – where kids do what kids are supposed to do – play.

Let the play begin.

 

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Youth Bringing an End to Sexual Violence!

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WEAVE Receives FBI Director’s Community Leadership Award

Friday, March 16, 2012
Greetings from Washington D.C.!

As I post this note, I am just leaving the national headquarters of the FBI. Luckily my visit with them is not top secret – in fact it is something I wanted to share with you right away.

I just returned from accepting the FBI Director’s Community Leadership Award. The national award is presented to a select few individuals and organizations who are nominated by FBI Field Offices from throughout the nation each year. In fact, only a handful of Northern Californians have ever received the award.

This award honors the hard work of WEAVE.

The award recognizes the right of every person to live without fear and the importance of the 24 hour response, support, and shelter provided by WEAVE. It celebrates the thousands of hours contributed by 260 volunteers each year. It acknowledges the passion that drives each staff person. It validates the tough decisions made by board and staff leadership over the past four years as we have struggled to do more with less. It reinforces the choices we have made to ensure that we can continue to survive during unprecedented times.

The award honors you and your belief in our work. I wish you could have been here to accept this honor with me. You made this honor possible. Because of you, WEAVE continues to survive and thrive.

You were with me in spirit and I wanted to share the experience. I have included a photo taken during the local presentation to our board and staff in December.  Photos from the event will be posted shortly and shared by WEAVE – check back later for the link or go to our Facebook page at www.facebook.com/WEAVEInc.

 

Sincerely,

Beth Hassett

Executive Director

 

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You Can’t Cover Up a Black Eye with a Shirt

Unlike other injuries sustained due to domestic violence, the eyes cannot easily be masked or hidden. Outside of sunglasses, eye injuries are not easily concealed. Eye injury – one of the most common of all domestic violence injuries – is one for which a victim is eager to seek medical attention.[1]  While a victim is often reluctant to seek help – even when injured – the fear of losing their sight will prompt them to get treatment.

Dr. Barbara Arnold, M.D, long time WEAVE supporter and ophthalmologist, talks about how in her profession knowing the signs of domestic violence can help connect victims with lifesaving  resources.  She notes that doctors are used to treating the conditions of a black eye or other eye injury, but not necessarily the person behind it. She encourages all health care professionals to evaluate more than just the injury: “It only takes 30 seconds to ask, ‘Did someone hurt you?’”

If a medical professional does not bring an injury to a patient’s attention or if it gets passed over lightly, oftentimes the patient may minimize or dismiss the abuse that took place. A patient may wrongly think that if it does not seem like a serious injury in the first place, the domestic violence incident is not worth worrying about. Dr. Arnold adds that a “conversation may not occur as to why the injury happened in the first place.”

Occasionally the abuser may bring the victim in to be treated. “Patients really want to talk, but to do so they need to be away from the perpetrator who is often the one bringing them in for care and volunteering the history of the accident for the victim.” In situations like this, Dr. Arnold encourages patients to be examined privately and be gently encouraged to tell what actually happened. She is also sensitive to the fact the perpetrator may be nearby in a waiting room.  If she is concerned for the patient, she will provide information about WEAVE with the suggestion “even if you don’t need this, someone you know might.”

As part of building community knowledge about domestic violence, Dr. Arnold knows that educating her peers is also a methodical, thoughtful process that requires a lot of outreach and education. Dr. Arnold keeps information about WEAVE in her reception area and encourages others to do the same.  Dr. Arnold also presents at professional conferences on the telltale signs and available resources.


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Source: “Eye Injury – The Domestic Violence Connection”; Dr. Barbara J. Arnold, M.D.

 

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Advocating for Victims and Survivors

This week hundreds of men and women from domestic violence and sexual assault centers across the state came together to meet with elected officials at the capitol about issues facing the survivors we serve. We spoke with members of the assembly and senate about creating new funding streams for services to sexual assault victims, the importance of teen dating violence education in the schools, and legislation that will close loopholes in the current penal code to better protect survivors. It is gratifying to work with such a passionate group of advocates and leaders who are working to strengthen the field and propel our movement forward. I am honored to represent WEAVE in these efforts!

Beth Hassett

WEAVE Executive Director

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